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Day Eighteen: How to help a friend in an abusive situation.

Background:

It’s difficult to see someone you love go through harmful situations. As humans, we tend to want to protect those we love and care for. So when we see our friends in situations we know are harmful, how do we respond? How should we act?

Action: Understanding the situation

  • First, we must sit down and talk with those who we see hurting. Talk from a place of love and concern, not judgment.

  • Explain what you see in the relationship and how it’s harmful. Ask questions to see if your friend sees it the same way. Helping your friend see their own worth is the best way to get them to ‘open their eyes.’

  • We cannot force people to do anything they don’t want to do. What we can do is help them see their own worth so they WANT to be away from abusive relationships and exploitative situations.

  • What do you do WHEN someone discloses an abusive relationship?

    • Listen, don’t judge.

    • In the cases of child abuse, adults must report the incident and get in touch with the proper services for help.

    • When an adult discloses abuse, direct them to the proper services for help and let them know you’re with them every step of the way.

Action: Share 5 Tips to Help Friends in abusive relationships

Action: Keep moving and raise money for survivors

  • Keep sharing your experience this month on social media and don’t forget to tag us! @rollerskatetoliberate

  • Reminder to share with your donors that ALL the money will go to survivors of human trafficking!

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Day Nineteen: The power of partnerships